ARE YOU THERE?

You will probably react with disbelief or feel numbed with the tragic news regarding the loss of a loved one. Many emotions can then be felt such as pain, guilt, anger and depression. Each passing is different even though counsellors report certain stages of behaviour as we attempt in some way to come to terms with the huge shock the loss presents us with.

From the spirit person’s point of view, they suddenly find themselves fully aware and standing in what appears to be ‘a body of light’. Initially, they might try to get in touch with you but fail in their attempts. For without a voice box or visible physical body that can be seen on our side of life, how can they do this? Some might affect the lights, radio or television. The reason being, that their new body has the ability to affect electrical equipment. In time and with the right training, they can place thoughts in our mind or in exceptional circumstances-appear before you!

I’ve been staggered by the amount of people who have witnessed such events. When ‘linking in’, I might say to a person in the audience, ‘your Father tells me he appeared before you last year’. Tears of joy can follow at this point as the person realises that the experience was real and not a figment of their imagination.

Always try and understand it from the spirit person’s point of view, the difficulties for them can be considerable. For a medium, it can sometimes be like trying to tune in a radio to a particular signal, some being stronger than others.

It is the spirit people who choose the time and method to get in touch. It’s such a gentle and yet powerful experience when it happens. Try to have faith and patience-they have!