To summon a spirit can be done but isn’t it going against the law of mutual respect?

Students of the subject will know of the stories  of sorcerers and necromancers who used rites of invocation to summon spirits  often with a selfish motive such as the discovery of treasure etc. For their  own protection, they would stand within a very carefully prepared magic circle  and not leave it until the spirit entity involved had returned to their realm. My own view is that when thinking of a  spirit person with love, a signal is both sent and received and the occupant of  the inner realms will draw close. This is one explanation for the countless  reports of apparitions or paranormal phenomena that occur when situations of  family strife occur. I have investigated quite a number myself, including a  female who was being physically and emotionally abused. Her grandfather on the  higher side of life named himself and the culprit involved along with some  detailed images of what had been taking place.